We all go through our life’s ups and downs. Everyone has their own way of seeing the hurdles and the opportunities.
There is one category which will push a person down so that the person should not grow and then I am OK, since I can’t grow, won’t let the other also grow.
Then there is other, how is that person growing, let me find out and follow some of his steps and ideas for me also to grow.
Then there is another category, who is satisfied with his growth. You grow your way, I grow my way, my style, my time, your style your time. I have my different priorities, with which I work my growth. Lets be happy with each other.
Now when these type of people communicate among themselves.
What do you think, who is selfish and who is selfless.
All will learn through their experiences their growth.
Now let me share you a story.
There were two good friends. Going through a tough time. Decided to share their feelings to each other and know what the other is going through, since they met after a long time.
The person A shares I had this accident, I lost that etc…the other one said I also had the similar experiences.
The person A felt offended, he said but your problem looks smaller, you can’t even understand what the pain is, since you dint experience that.
The person B replied, I understand, my feelings also had a lot of roller coaster, only the incidents are different than yours.
The person A felt that B was not understanding his pains, he told him I wish you go through this to understand that my problems are bigger than you, my pain is more than yours. Then you will understand what pain is called when you go through it.
The person B replied, I don’t understand your pain, but I would never want you to go through what I have gone through. Since I don’t want anyone to experience that. I would pray that you get some one understands your pain and helps you out, but you never get what I suffered.
Both were good friends, cared for each other, but its how you feel about yourself it matters. That’s what comes out.
One was not satisfied with his pain that he wanted others to also go through the pain to understand his pain. But did he do the same when he had success, did he wanted others to try the same that you also get success in life like I got to feel how success is.
The other person, after hearing the pain, realized that, he has his turmoil, I had mine. I felt mine is big and he felt his is big. But since I felt mine was a lot problem, I would not want anyone to have that, and never to my friend. But even he prayed he get who understands his pain and ready to accept his pain to feel the pain. I have my journey to go and you have your journey to go. Your failure and success is yours and my failure and success is mine. Lets live it.
You would come across people saying – This problem or this relationship is so painful, If you go through you will understand.
There are other category (though less) – would say, My time was a bit bad and I would never want anyone to have such a bad time.
Now you decide, with what type of energy they radiate and with whom you would like to be around.
There are people who get hurted by some one, they curse them that you also get hurted by someone. You get more hurdles thrice the amount I have got. Curse for their downfall. Be happy with it and feel satisfied.
A selfish person can only curse.
The selfless person will move on. because this person feels that its not the worth to it. May be something better is there for me.
The energy is what you attract.
The selfish person was unaware, he was selfish, he kept attracting more like him, and cursing each other and having only downfalls. As you curse me and I curse you and both don’t succeed.
The selfless, disconnected the hurt energy, and was looking for more vibrant energy and connected to people who praised, loved and understood and you grow and I grow.
There is lot more deeper understandings in these messages.
See what you take from it.
Angel Blessings.