This story is a bit opposite than the previous story. In the previous story the person blames the outside world or others for his incapability. Here the person blames self for all.
It’s a story of a girl who had a habit of analyzing each situation and would try to give the best to it. If there was a problem, she would think where she went wrong or what she could do.
she was blaming herself for everything.
Anything goes wrong, a fight happens or something negative will happen will blame self, I shouldn’t have done this, I should have gone little later, I should have not eaten this or I should not…. was lot in her.
She started going into depression. And making more mistakes and crying on it. Then one day when her bucket of cries got full and over flowing she decided I will back fire, but that back fired her too. Because somewhere her inner-self always said her it was her mistake.
Then one day she met a friend in a garden, both were lonely sitting, decided to speak to each other.
She told her sorry to speak to her and disturb her silence, the friend replied, why sorry, if you wont speak to me, you wont know that I like your company or not. And there’s no need to feel sorry, since I felt disturbed, but even liked your company. I do always come her to sit and get my time, to sit and explore my inner self. So my inner-self may be brought you to me. It has to be not always this side or that side, sometimes bad and sometimes good comes, there’s no right or wrong. Sometimes I may be right and sometimes you. Let that god decide and we do our duties and enjoy.
Hearing her it just clicked her mind. Her mind rang a bell of a waking up time to face the challenges. Then both became good company for each other, as it is said opposite attracts. Both became helping for each other , the friend guided to see her inner-self and she guided her to see the other side of the story too.
There are many take away from this story. Let your inner soul take what you need to learn from it.
Its no harm if its your mistake, but whats done to correct it that is important. We are human we make mistakes, learning from our mistakes is said to improve on it. Blaming self or others only creates the cycle you want for future, you are programming your mind that the conclusion of mistake is this. So it recreates the same for you next time.
So letting go, forgiveness and blessing to all, is the best remedy.
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